There are 3 major obstacles when it comes to finding a romantic partner to share your life with.
- You have to FIND him/her.
- You have to MEET him/her.
- You need to determine COMPATIBILITY.
The majority of relationships are entered into based initially upon a foundation of attraction and chemistry. With the divorce rate being over 67% this is not a successful recipe for long-term bliss.
Matchmakers find you potential mates based upon the important factors of compatibility, shared values and hobbies and physical preferences.
Years of research proves that there are 21 areas of indication that will either make or break a relationship. They include sociability, sexual attitudes, religious beliefs, spontaneity, dining out frequency, romance, clothing style, and career influences, to name a few.
Professional matchmaking services using this scientific formula also measure your degree of trust, possessiveness, activity level, jealousy, organization, etc. These areas take 12-24 months to determine on your own.
The reason relationships don’t work out is that ultimately we are not compatible with the people we date.
Determining compatibility first and foremost is a more efficient use of your time, and allows the relationships to be built on a much stronger foundation before adding in the attraction and the chemistry components.
Another bonus of working with a professional matchmaking service is that you are guaranteed to meet X number of people who you are compatible with long-term AND who are looking for the same end result as you.
The hardest thing to determine on your own when dating is what your date’s intent is. Perhaps they want a relationship or perhaps they are just looking for someone fun to “knock boots” with. With every client belonging to the matchmaking firm that you will meet, you KNOW the timing is right for them to find someone that they can share a loving relationship with. Everyone has invested their hope, heart’s and their money. This knowledge puts the fun back into dating and enables you to simply relax, allowing yourself to be vulnerable and most importantly to be yourself.
When you join a matchmaking service, you’re not just looking for your special someone; they are also looking for you.
Everyone you meet has invested in meeting you.
Everyone has dating blind spots. Sometimes we continuously choose the same “type” of person who is not necessarily right for us. Other times, we take unconscious actions that sabotage our success in dating. When working with a professional matchmaking service, you are working with an entire team of professionals including marketing (to consistently head hunt for your potential match), matchmakers, relationship experts, dating coaches and image consultants. This team of dedicated entirely to your success!!
The only guarantee in life is you. It’s time to do something about your future relationships. Consider taking the pressure off and hire a professional matchmaking firm. Maybe you’ll find you the partner of your dreams.